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A master asked his disciples:
‘Why do we shout in anger? Why do people shout at each other when they are upset?’

the disciples thought for a while, and one of them said
‘Because we lose our calm, we shout for that.’
‘But, why to shout when the other person is just next to you? ‘Isn’t it possible to speak to him or her with a soft voice? Why do you shout at a person when you’re angry?’
The disciples gave him some other answers but none satisfied the master.

Finally he explained:
‘When two people are angry at each other, their hearts distance a lot. To cover that distance they must shout to be able to hear each other. The angrier they are, the stronger they will have to shout to hear each other through that great distance.’

Then the master asked:
‘What happens when two people fall in love? They don’t shout at each other but talk softly, why? Because their hearts are very close. The distance between them is very small…’

And he concluded:
‘When they love each other even more, what happens?
‘They do not speak, only whisper and they get even closer to each other in their love.

‘Finally they even need not whisper, they only look at each other and that’s all. That is how close two people are when they love each other...’
 

Our society is Negative

our society is negative....we always perceive things in negative context....today when one of my teacher asked me why you were absent yesterday and i told him that i was ill he responded like i am making him fool....there are many examples like this we face day to day like one of my class fellow wants to know whether i made assignment or not i said no but he was again and again insisting to give assignment....the point is we always think negative while western society is positive if a person ask i haven't had gas            
supply last month they cut the bill of that person without any inquiry they will not ask him that he is doing a fraud or it story is bullshit or go and check meter while if that happens in our country they would have consider it a fabricated story and will go to check gas meter.we don't take complain of any person in positive
sense we always think negative this is what my observation is and this is what is think.

The Alchemist

Recently i read the novel "the alchemist" by paulo coelho and i think this novel have very wise messages for us very close to reality ...it tells us about finding destinies and to achieve them by natures signs and omens...it tells you that evey human is unique than other in every scheme the way we talk the way we walk the way we think and the way do things and like wise we all have different destinies coded by nature and way to find those is very simple just look for what you love to do in you daily life even if you are a sehfered and love travelling...just figure it out,,follow that and than see the whole world will help you to achieve that we have to take first step for that...it also tell us about the language of nature which always communicates to us through signs and omens we just have to focous/observe on whats happening around us....and finally it tell us that those who follow their destinies finally becomes alchemists in their own field....and above all what i like most in it that it tell us that always do what your heart says,do what you think is right,the way you think is also unique instead of what other say...

And i think if i dare to do what it teaches to follow destiny...for that i have to hurt many people and then it forces me to think that life is much different from novels,movies and dramas..:)

Point of view.

An educated person is one who have his own point of view in all matters of life......3000 years back in Athens there were too many philosophers and every evening regular debates were conducted and at that time there was a philosopher named as Socrates and he at that time defined human as "Straight and walk on two legs" and at that time there was another philosopher name as thewjhans'kalbi,he was blind kalbi was the name of his dog,one day he approaches to Socrates with hen in one hand..he straightened up hen with pulling up beak and said to Socrates look,here is your human because it is straight and also it is on two legs..:)...now what happens is that there are some words which came in our mind or someone else told us something or we think that he was very wise human or philosopher the whole world recognize him 3000 back and we should also believe in what he had said and sometimes what happens is that we believe on him and build our whole philosophy on that and sometimes we get to know that his philosophy was wrong and after that we feel very bad and get a sort of psychological sock...so i think as Allah has given us mind so we should have to make our own point of view,what will be the difference if i will make my own opinion,why i need to carry the point of view of Socrates,Aristotle,Bernard shah or Shakespear...i also have my own mind na and my mind can be/will be much better than them in the sense because Socrates,Aristotle and thewjhans;kalbi  they were 3000 years old people and of that time e.g pants,nail cutter or scissor isn't in use so why to believe in there thoughts as it is....if someone ask us definition of human we very comfortably say "a social animal" a 3000 years old definition of Socrates but what is your point of view.....?

Earth quack 2005

Today is 8th of October and i cant forget this day because exactly seven years back in 2005 we faced the horrible earth quack of the Pakistan's history which was of magnitude 7.6 in which more than 75000 people died.That day was same like all the other days and i was in school and our saturday was on and it was the first day of ramazan and we were in class and suddenly when it occured it was of so high intensity that when i saw turned back the desks were like dancing and there was so much horrible noise..when i ran out of the class i remember that a thought came in my mind  that "Run this building will collapse,.." when we reached at the ground i remember the floor was sort of vibrating after that there was a sort of noise in earth and when i reached home the things i saw are not explainable after every five minutes the aftershocks were very horrible...at evening we moved to mamo home the whole night we had not slept,the aftershocks were too frequent...mobile service was down we were very worried about other relatives...

the whole scene after 3 days of earth quack is another long story...   

Back in mind

In child hood while playing with my brother suddenly his finger struck in my eye and i remember how bad that felt...when i grown up a little while playing badminton with my cousin suddenly shuttle hit on my eye and i remembered that was very painful...now recently one and half years back while playing cricket suddenly ball reflected and struck in my eye...nooo!..that was also very painful and now there is some sort of fear in the back of my mind whenever i play cricket, badminton and when i cross stairs of my home in front of which there is a sort of pointed metal and always a thought came in my mind that if u fall from here then u may injure ur eye...God forbid,...and with that all the memories get refreshed.....brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr.....how to run away with that fear...

But now i always thank to Allah,millions of times for protecting and pray to keep protecting....

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Younger sister..a joy..

You know what younger sister is a joy..i have a younger sister to whom i enjoy different flavors of life sometime when she want something she shows love and says "my cute brother"and sometimes when she quarrel she says "u are so stupid"...sometimes we play,dance and sing with each other and sometimes you are forced to face her stubborn attitude and do exactly what she says...on Eid,birthday or any event she force me to give money or gifts and sometimes u are emotionally black mailed.:) and sometime she shares her secrets with you....most of all,she is your friend and you adore her..

A sister is someone who loves you from the heart,

No matter how much you argue you cannot be drawn apart.

She is a joy that cannot be taken away,

Once she enters your life, she is there to stay.

When she is by your side, the world is filled with life,

When she is not around, your days are full of strife.

A sister is a blessing, who fills your heart with love,

She flies with you in life with the beauty of a dove.

A friend to whom you can express your feelings,

She doesn’t let you get bored at family dealings.

Whether you are having your ups or downs,

She always helps you with a smile and never frowns.

Protest against Staire American movie

New American movie insulting the greatest man in history..the prophet Muhammad peace be upon him , I will say  you can do whatever you want since you are a powerful country (even you lost 2 wars against Muslims in Afghanistan and Iraq) , but since our puppet governments are cowards , you can act freely. But i want to tell America that those stupid movies make the world hate American people more and more , everyday American people become more isolated than before , i feel pity for many innocent American people who will be hated by the world because of those stupid irresponsible acts of haters ... Those enemies of Islam lost all debates against Muslims that is why they started an impolite war against Islam Come and make debates with Muslims if you think that you are right ! why don't you dare trying ?!! i know why you cant The best proof that we are in the right path is that we don't dare insult Jesus P.b.u.h as a revenge because we love him a and believe in him as a prophet with all other prophets .. Alhamdulillah i am Muslim , i am on a right path ...

One last word , you are trying to insult the greatest man in history , you can not touch him and you will not reach the value of his shoes , so die in your rage , Muhammad peace be upon him is the best man in history , and he is in the highest rank in paradise..

Knowledge is not the property of Anyone

Yesterday one of my class fellow said to me that we Muslims were the initials of present knowledge and Englishman's stole our great books and now the present knowledge is based on our knowledge...this is not the thinking of him only its a thinking of almost all the Muslims and i don't agree with it....there are two reasons of it the first is that the knowledge doesn't belongs to any religion nor any cast,knowledge is nor Hindu nor Christen nor Jew nor Muslim,knowledge is knowledge and the thing which doesn't belong to anyone and is not a property of anyone then it is of everyone,every single person have right on it and you see all the Physics,chemistry,mathematics finance etc we are studying is all made by western world now they can claim very easily that you people are Muslim and  they can say give us back all our knowledge...so why are they not saying...?just because knowledge doesn't belongs to any religion and it is not the property of anyone....knowledge which once discovered becomes right of everyone it is open for entire world and we are studying it considering it our own right...now its a big reality that today our whole medical science,engineering management sciences etc are all  made by western world and we sitting in any Islamic country studying all that knowledge considering it our right and using it... then i think we really don't have any right to say that in past we had great books....Englishman stole them...:) 

3 Things of Humanity

Today in one of our class one of our teacher banned us on wearing jeans and ordered us not to wear it in his class as this is not Islamic dressing and he wasted our 45 mins on imposing his point of view on us and at that time many questions pop up in my mind but i didn't found answers......first of all he started with a hadith that the blind following of "kufaar" is not legal....and i thought okay its a hadith sir i respect allot but if that is a case then the course we are studying is also made by "kufaar" and the laptop laying in front of u is also made by the people for which u use special word "kufaar"....and the marker in your hand is also the invention of them the light,fan and the mobile in your pocket as well so thats means we should not use them as well why its only in case of  wearing jeans..??and second question came in my mind when he Ordered us not to wear jeans in his class otherwise better not to come in his class and i thought what the heck is this we say that in Islam there is no "zabardasti" then why are u forcing us? religion is a personal matter of everyone and everyone has to go in his grave u told us its okay fine thank you,but u cannot force us this is not Islam what i think....the third question came in my mind was when he said explanation of Quran is as it is as did my Prophet(P.B.U.H)....okay fine i say i love Prophet(P.B.U.H)  and iam ready to die for him but on the other hand we say na that Holy book of Quran is for every times and its explanation is new in all times the reason for that is that with passage of time a new human had been developed in new times a new thinking had been developed and that new thinking human need a new translations and explanations and why we Muslims are backward i think because people of new times haven't done new explanation of Glorious Quran like u see it a time of microwave likewise internet technology and sattlite technology world has reached on mars so if a new man doesn't explain Quran according to new times then it will not appeal to mind a bit...and he will say okay  its a very awesome book of God and we have to believe in it but on so many places and occasions  our new mind will have doubts and that doubts will effect our faith(Iman)...another question came into my mind when he says that "if we would not be a good Muslim then we neither become a good Pakistani,father,brother,sister etc etc" and i thought for that matter first we need to become a good human for example if anyone in world do 3 things no matter where they live who they are then we call them a good human whether they are christen,Hindu,Sikh or Muslim those three things are no 1 is a for a good human helps other e.g if someone needs money for medicine and we help him we will be known as good human good christen good hindu or good Muslim like u see NGO'S working all over the world known as good because they are helping people...second quality of a good human is that he has a great tolerance a man with a good tolerance anywhere in world will not be known as bad whether he is from any Religon,no matter how bad someone hit his thoughts and point of view he tolerates no matter how much someone insults he tolerate.. like take example of Prophet (P.B.U.H),u know in how many ways kufaar e makkah hurted him and teased him but he tolerated them....and third quality of a good human is that he fights for other rights anywhere in world if u analyze those who fight for others are never known as bad no matter what religon they follow,they are always with right,in real life you daily see many wrong doing with others if we fight for them or raise voice then u will be a good human......now if i am not a good human then no matter how much i follow Islam,i would not be a good Muslim...why?because i am not with right(haq) and i don't fight for it i ignore it,second i don't help others no matter patient is dying,streets and towns are getting worse,people are wrong doing, we ignore it and third i don;t have enough tolerance that if some coughs in front of me i abuse him...now tell me if someone is implementing on all things of islam performing Namaz 5 time a day and had performed hajj and give zakat and give Qurbani of camel every time and have beard and eyes are always down but not implementing on 3 things of humanity discussed above will he be known as a good Muslim....??its just like i keep praying for 40 years without wazoo because foundation is wrong na....you want to make your son a good Pakistani for that you have to made him a good Muslim and for that first you have to made him a good human.,and for that its a universal fact that human learns from other so when me myself doesn't fight for other rights my son will never do it when me myself don't help others my son will never help others because he had never learned and seen it and like wise if there is no tolerance in me my son will never do it because he had never seen that and learned that...so if we are not a good human then we can't be a good Muslim and neither a good Pakistani...

And the same teacher in next day in next class got very angry on our cr and insults him when he asked same question thrice now this is what i am talking about tolerance....we are trying to implement on whole Quran but not implementing on basic 3 things of humanity.....why their Islam always starts from wearing jeans...???if someone get Muslim by saying only then there wouldn't be non muslims in world so there are some other things needed....

Note:these are my personal thoughts and there are 100 percent chance of getting wrong....

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when you don't have words to express your feelings n u know no one cares you write and delete write and delete again and again this is what i learned just now after wasting so much time ....

What is Personality.:)

In world most expensive suits making company is of brioni and it is an italic brand there range starts from 4000 euros and like wise world most expensive shoes making company is of crewcidy and there range also starts from 4000 euros and you get shoes after nine months of ordering and like wise there are companies who are making new expensive and exclusive perfumes….fortunately I met a person who was wearing a brioni’s suit and was wearing crewsidy shoes and his perfume was also very fantastic and I was very much impressed by his personality I thought that such a tasteful person first time came in my life but unfortunately whenever i take tea or coffee I start remembering that person automatically and taste of my coffee or tea get spoiled the reason for that is that we were sitting face to face and cups of coffee were in front of us and in a mean while of such a sophisticated conversation he sneezed very horribly which goes half in his cup and half in my cup…:))and after then what happened is that he start taking his coffee…:))now I was reluctant not willing to take coffee and he was saying me again and again don't you like coffee why are you not taking it…:)now atticates were saying that I should do something so I closed my eyes and ears forcefully drank my coffee…:))now what happens is whenever I see a cup of coffee or tea it uncontrollably remind me of him and when I remember him i always use to forget his expensive suit,his expensive shoes his expensive perfumes and I forget his conversation but i only remember his horrible sneezing…. this is known as personality….:)

Credit card Relations

Do we have to wait for someone's death to meet and have get together,life had gone meaning less that relations are getting weak and our own love ones are getting far....Ashfaq ahmed in his book Zavia writes that i was at funeral of my relative and i was half slept and some children were talking nearby and i was surprised by the one of child sentence he was saying that "if someone dies then we have allot of fun,we get together and all the relatives as well"....and then one of them said dont know who will die next  now, nana naseer ud din beard is white may be he will die next.then the fight began in children that no aunti zahara is too old when she will die we will go to faisalabad we will meet there and will play there whole day.....i tell you a good thing that  in that discussion my name(Ashfaq ahmed) also came my youngest nephew said nana ashfaq is also too much old,and when he will die there will be more people and fun because he is too much famous.....those children were very rude,serious and with deep thinking making planes to meet next again....

ladies and gentile men if we say our values had changed then its not true.values are still there like still there is always a difference between truth and lie,honest or dishonest weather we change home or city values are still there but the horrible thing is that our children have to wait for someone's death to meet again,this is not the problem of our children this is our fault...

when i realize why it is so then find out that small thing time to time keep held in our way like i have time to rectify my income tax bill which is wrong or i have time to renew my expired driving license,my son live in  rivand and there is no gas i have time to supply gas cylinder to him,dog bite our servant and i have to take him hospital for 14 injections...i have time to write many books...i am worried about my utility bills,worried about land line phone which is not working and go again and again for that matter in phone offices but don't have time to our dear ones.  

we need to know our carelessness,we need to knew our relations and to keep in touch we need to take time out....we have to give relations at least importance like credit card.... my wish is that we keep meeting and have get together so that our children don't have to wait for someone's death and also they don't have to wish for someone's early death to meet again....

Lesson

Just received a beautiful message with a beautiful lesson...

A king with a defect in 1 eye and 1 leg asked all the painters to draw his beautiful portrait but no 1 was ready to draw, as how to show him beautiful with defects in 1 eye and a leg...One painter however agreed and drew a classic one. It was such a fantastic picture that everyone was surprised "He painted the king aiming for a hunt, targeting with 1 eye closed and a leg bent for it" ....

i think we can get huge lesson from the above story that why can't we just paint others like this by hiding their weakness and highlighting their strengths?it can solve many problems in life from people and relationship perspective because no one is perfect and in the end affection is always greater than perfection.

may Allah teach us to hide other's weaknesses and bring their virtues to light...

Power of Sharing..

you know what..what is that thing which when you share it,it doubles..??it is known as happiness...yes  the thing which doubles by sharing is known as happiness and you know what what is that thing which decreases by sharing..??it is known as grief/sadness...yes the thing which decreases by sharing is sadness..for example if you u want to celebrate your birthday alone it will not give you happiness and on the other hand more you invite people the more it will give you happiness,so the thing which doubles by sharing is happiness...now the thing which decreases by sharing is sadness as i said above for example if someone your close die the more people come for sorrow and express the more it decreases the pain and grief  thus we say that grief and sadness decreases by sharing...so we say that the thing which when shared and it doubles is happiness and the thing which when shared and reduces is grief/sadness....so you see isn't that interesting that both happiness and grief/sadness have opposite effect by just doing the same thing "sharing"...

Money isn't Everything

You know what you cannot say that money is not important in life yes it is essential because it brings for us all the necessities and luxuries for comfortable existence, however at the same time to think that money is everything is also a big mistake because you cannot buy real happiness and satisfaction with your money...someone said..yes with money you can buy million dollar bed but cannot buy sleep...yes you can buy a clock but not time.. it can buy you a book but not knowledge.. it can buy you a position/status but not respect....yes it can buy you a medicine but not health...yes it can buy you blood but not life...yes it can buy you a pleasure but not love...it can buy you cars but not good friends...it can buy you a house but not home...it can buy you but not your soul and a quote just popped up in mind is that we lose our health to gain money and then to restore our health we lose money...in the pursuit of beautiful tomorrow by getting more and more money we lose our beautiful today and what happens is we live as we will never gonna die and we die as we had never lived...  

Some of the happiest people I have ever met they live in a small town they live in small houses, have no cars and wear the same outfit for days in a row,the reason i found for their happiness is that they are surrounded by family and friends and are almost insulated from the big, bad materialistic world,they get joy every day from simple things like going for a walk after a meal or picking cucumbers from their garden...

None of those cost a dime..

so you see money isn't everything,and it often causes pain and sufferings,i tell you because i am your friend and as a friend i want to take away your pains and sufferings...so send me all your money..:-)

Some Real Adventure

You know what today i faced some real adventure and thrill its actually second time in my life it happens to me,but this time it was more dangerous,but thanks to Allah that he saved me in all that situation...today when i step down from the bus and as i was about to cross the road without looking on either sides some thoughts popped into my mind which made me forget that i am crossing the road, and in the next moment i was on the road in shocked state. The thing which bring me back from those thoughts was the loud horn and i was on the ground. actually in mean while i was crossing the road fast speed motorcycle just before hitting me woke me up by horn just before second i looked up too close was motorcycle and then i don't really know what happened exactly i was flying in air got down on road face right up the sky and the first thought came to mind oh thanks God i am alright after three seconds i got up three four people were around asking me that are you alright son?are you fine?i wasn't nervous because all that happened so quickly and thanks to motor cycle uncle who really tolerated me because it was all my fault...,thank you dear Allah again for your huge kindness...:-)

Stories About Jews business

You know what why,specially jews are very much successful in business all over the world even when they are in minority,there are two main reasons for this which i got is that they don't trust anyone in business and second is they dont waste any chance of business when they get any in any situation...there are several real interesting stories about them the first story is about the rich jew who was when dying of cancer and he was having only one son who was very young and the he was thinking if i would die how will he handle business so he decided to give him the life time lesson,which he also got from his father he asked his son to jump from the roof and he will catch him,his son was initially afraid and was not jumping,his father asked dont you trust me just jump and i will catch you after all i am your father,his son when jumped his father took 2 steps back and dosen't catch him and because of that his son's legs were broken and then he asked his son the lesson i want to give you is that never trust anyone in business world even if its your father.....the other story is about a rich jew business man had four sons and when he was dying he called his son's one by one and seeing all his four son's at the same time he asked his sons in angry tone that, Idiots if all of you are here then who is running shop...:-)...the third story is  about two business men's and they were the enemy of each other one decided to kill other when he enter into the house with the pistol in hand,after sometime he came back from there keeping his head down people asked what happened he said when i enter in the house to kill him he saw my pistol and asked me that i liked your pistol will you give me that in fifty thousand and i thought that this price is much higher than the actual price of pistol so i decided not to miss this chance of business because killing him gives me nothing i can kill him some other day...so here you see that they never miss chance of business....there are other stories form which you can judge their business mind like if they were having case of murder on other party what they do is they prefer to take huge ransom rather than giving punishment because they know that giving punishment to culprit gives them nothing,so they never miss any opportunity whenever and whatever the situation is....  

The Miller,His son and Their Donkey:)

you know what the miller, his son, and their donkey were on their way to town.
They had not gone far when they met some girls going to a party. They were talking and laughing as they went along. One of them said, "Look at that man and boy driving a donkey. One of them surely might ride on it."

The miller heard what they said, and said his son to climb on the donkey, while he walked along at its side.

After a while they came to a group of old men who were talking very seriously. "There," said one, "I was just saying that boys and girls have no respect for the aged. You see it is true in this case. See that boy riding while his old father has to walk."...

"Get down, my son," said his father, "and I will ride." So they went on.

 They next met some women coming from town. "Why!" they cried, "your poor little boy is nearly tired out. How can you ride and making your son walk?" So the miller made his son ride on the donkey behind him.

They were now in town. A man coming down the street called to the miller, "Why do you make your donkey carry such a load? You can carry him better than he can carry you."

At this the miller and his son got off the donkey. They tied the donkey's legs together, turned him over on his back; and began to carry him.

A crowd soon gathered to see the strange sight. As they were crossing a bridge the donkey became frightened at the hooting of the crowd. He broke loose, fell into the river, and was drowned.

The miller was angry and ashamed. He said, "There! I have tried to please everybody and have only made a fool of myself. After this I shall do as I think best and let people say what they will."

Daffodils

you know what first when i read this beautiful poem when i was in 9th class it was in our course actually,and at that time i like this poem because of the rhythm it makes when you read it..our teacher used to read it in a special different kind of accent and we use to enjoy and copy that accent of teacher by parodying but now i like it for accent as well as for the message poet want to give us..:)

here it is..

I wandered lonely as a cloud
That floats on high o'er vales and hills,
When all at once I saw a crowd,
A host, of golden daffodils;
Beside the lake, beneath the trees,
Fluttering and dancing in the breeze.

Continuous as the stars that shine
And twinkle on the milky way,
They stretched in never-ending line
Along the margin of a bay:
Ten thousand saw I at a glance,
Tossing their heads in sprightly dance.

For oft, when on my couch I lie
In vacant or in pensive mood,
They flash upon that inward eye
Which is the bliss of solitude;
And then my heart with pleasure fills,
And dances with the daffodils.
William Wordsworth

About sorrow..

you know what just saw news about the bhoja airline plane crash incident and army glacier incident and felt very sorrow and sad about them and more about their families...i know what happens when you suddenly lost your dear ones and  hear that they are no more..their families suffer allot...yes they really really  suffer...the pain of loosing someone really hurts the one who have lost someone...just not finding the words what to write exactly because i cant express my feeling in words because i have felt and seem the case in my family when my cousin died in bomb blast initially it felt like a dooms day and their family had really suffered its very painful to see mother weeping on his son death and then at this stage we think why this happen..many questions to Allah why you did that..but cant complain God because every thing happens with the will of God..

imagine the pain of those families at this time and feel their feelings and emotions then you can feel the pain of them they are just like us...just not finding how to write .

May Allah keep their souls rest in peace and may Allah grant their families patience...

Ya Allah save us all from such dreadful incidents.. 

Beautiful lines

Read something beautiful and enjoyed it :)

You may not be his/her first, his/her last, or his/her only. He/She loved before he/she may love again. But if he/she loves you now, what else matters? 

He/She is not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if he/she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him/her and give him/her the most you can. 

 He/she may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but he/she will give you a part of his/her that he/she knows you can break - his/her heart. So don't hurt him/her, don't change him/her, don't analyze and don't expect more than he/she can give. Smile when he/she makes you happy, let him/her know when he/she makes you mad, and miss him/her when he/she's not there.... 

"The truth is, everybody is going to hurt you, you just gotta find the ones worth suffering for".."(Bob Marley) 

Hidden Relationships evolution

You know what first ever relation developed of human was with his Allah when he created Hazrat Adam(A.S) and asked him that i am your God i created you and you have to workship me and you have to call  me for help when you are in trouble,...so first relation of every human is with his Allah and this is known as hidden relation,wheather a person is Christen or jew or even atheist who dosent belive in God say that  there is nothing and in nothing there is some thing...so first relation of human,developed was with God...then the second relation which developed was of man and woman because when Hazarat Adam was in Heaven he was very happy and was workshiping Allah and things were going very fine but still sometimes he used to get upset and sad and so Allah Almighty knows exactly what to do and awarded Hazarat Adam(AS),Hazarat Hawa(A.S)...so the second relation which developed was of between man and woman...now the third relation which developed was the relation of mistakes as because our founding father did a mistake by eating grain when Allah restrict him and also done many mistakes other than that if you analyze..so doing mistakes is in the nature of human,every human do make mistakes...and that why God made the door of forgivness...other wise human will be a machine who is always right like angels...,so this is the third relation we have..now the fourth relation of human which developed was with his co

Our Limitations

you know what we are  unlimited and we are limited by the concept of limitations which we hold in our mind but why it happens that we limit our selfs to certain extent...these limits or fear hold us back to do something and to experience more.. napoleon said that there are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge...someone said your life is as lonely as u would like to make it for your self and for others...and likewise your joy and happiness is as much as you decide and want to feel it....your night is as long as you decide to stay awake and your destination is as long as you decide to walk.....you are as restrict to something as long as you want to..no one set sets the limits for you...no one can catch the span of the sky for you and your sky is as much as you want to reach...all you need is a positive approach in your decisions spread your wing and decide to fly...life is wonderful if you know how to live..and newton said that if I have seen a little further,it is by standing on the shoulders of giants....but on the other hand i think setting limits are very good approach to live a good life for example if you are on the road and cross speed limits then what happens is you have to pay chalan as a punishment. and like wise if we over eat something result is in vomiting...and if we do any thing in the real world by crossing limits we have to pay for that also,if you analyze world around ur self....if  my these points are valid then this seems to be a contradiction a bit with my starting points...and i think Islam give best answer to that contradiction by saying that "may'ana ravi ikhtayar karo"means live a balanced life...what do you think... 

Childhood life

you know what i usually think of my childhood...think of those lovely days when there was fun,fun and fun only....when we were not aware of the bitterness of this world....when every thing seems to be good...when you had allot of time to play....when you are never in hurry.....when you say every thing from your heart....when there was no "I"....when we feel no shame in going others home....when we were treated as angels....when we had un worried life....when we had allot to say...and when we had exposure of the world....i  really felt that how good was our childhood life...

The most enjoying days of life,
Is the Childhood life.
It always went our way,
and it did not sway.

Lot of time to play,
and waste all day.
No time to worry,
or to be in a hurry.

There was no tension,
that we could mention.
Such a pleasant life,
was childhood life.

Oh! I wish to get it back,
but all the memories are in a rack.
And they are like treasure,
that we always cherish.
We remember this treasure,
till the time we perish

Someone

Read something beautiful....want you to read also....

"Only once in your life, I truly believe, you find someone who can completely turn your world around. You tell them things that you have never shared with another soul and they absorb everything you say and actually want to hear more. You share hopes for the future, dreams that will never come true, goals that were never achieved and the many disappointments life has thrown at you.......When something wonderful happens, you can't wait to tell them about it, knowing they will share in your excitement. They are not embarrassed to cry with you when you are hurting or laugh with you when you make a fool of yourself. Never do they hurt your feelings or make you feel like you are not good enough, but rather they build you up and show you the things about yourself that make you special and even beautiful...... There is never any pressure, jealousy or competition but only a quiet calmness when they are around. You can be yourself and not worry about what they will think of you because they love you for who you are. The things that seem insignificant to most people such as a note, song or walk become invaluable treasures kept safe in your heart to cherish forever......Memories of your childhood come back and are so clear and vivid it’s like being young again. Colours seem brighter and more brilliant. Laughter seems part of daily life where before it was infrequent or didn’t exist at all. A phone call or sms two during the day helps to get you through a long day’s work and always brings a smile to your face.....  In their presence, there’s no need for continuous conversation, but you find you’re quite content in just having them nearby. Things that never interested you before become fascinating because you know they are important to this person who is so special to you. You think of this person on every occasion and in everything you do.......Simple things bring them to mind like a pale blue sky, gentle wind or even a storm cloud on the horizon. You open your heart knowing that there’s a chance it may be broken one day and in opening your heart, you experience a love and joy that you never dreamed possible...... You find that being vulnerable is the only way to allow your heart to feel true pleasure that’s so real it scares you. You find strength in knowing you have a true friend and possibly a soul mate who will remain loyal to the end. Life seems completely different, exciting and worthwhile. Your only hope and security is in knowing that they are a part of your life...."  

Deep Random thoughts

You know what sometimes i feel so depressed and sad because of many reasons.....life is the name of going like one of my teacher used to say people come and go but life dosent stop it goes on....it really hurts when you feel that someone ur love ones hurts u by ignoring.....it really hurts when u feel that u are just an option for time pass for them when they are bored or alone....sometimes it feels bad... when u think your dearest kins dont know your problems...someone said well...life is much like facebook people will like ur problems and comment but no one is gonna solve them because everybody seems so busy in updating their own status....and it even really feel bad while you are feeling all that and see Pakistan loosing match vs India like today it really doubles your sadness.....it hurts when you see double standards....it really hurts when they underestimate u.....money is not every thing....in this materialistic time relationships are week you cannot judge people from their appearance. now a  days people see money not person...no one is ever busy in his his/her life its all about priorities....and sometimes i think of a quote that....being a good person is just like being a goal keeper no matter how many goals u save people will remember the one which u missed.....well i have much to say.....you must be thinking what the bullshit me writing here but i have decided to release my frustration here by writing and sharing my Shattered thoughts which i usually think of....i think its because of expectations,like Shakespeare said that i always feel happy u know why because i dont expect anything from others because expectations always hurt.....
Dont really know wrote well or not but Feeling relaxed now...:-)

My Ist writing...

You know what this was my first ever writing in the university when i was in third semester and in the class of communication skills we were given a task to write on anything according to our own interest and time given to us was only ten to fifteen minutes and we had to give a presentation in front of class of whatever we had written,when i gave presentation and the response i received from the teacher was absolutely fantastic for me and from there i discovered that "ohh man you can write"....so i want to share that writing here.

When i start thinking about what are my interests so that i can write on that,i was sort of confused what to write  ....what are my interests what i like ...first thing came into my mind to write on cricket as i am a cricket lover..:-)then second thought came into my mind was to write on relationships but no...then i thought to write on social change,but no..then i decided to write on the easiest topic guess what....politics....politics in Pakistan....and by the time i start writing on it only five minutes were remaining but i got enough time to write so here is that writing....

Topic:-"change"

As we all are concerned  about Pakistan and the politics so i choose this topic of why and how can we bring the change in our country....at the moment Pakistani nation is under allot of pressure and tension...facing inflection,suicide bombing natural disasters and drone attacks are humiliating our sovereignty and at the same time  our hostile states are constantly  accusing us so in this situation i feel that our current government had failed to deliver results and now i think this is the time for change....

first of all i want to give some historic background of our political parties.....first zulfikar ali  bhutto came then her daughter ruled us twice and now his husband is the president ,now my question is ...is this the government of their father that one go and other came.....now in short Pakistani nation needs a leader and a change which i think is only imran khan why imran khan because he has at least done something for this country like making the cancer hospital in the poor country like Pakistan and also has made world class university for poor people,so this sprite shows that he wants to do something for country....my vote is with imran khan because he said in one of his interviews that if i became the president i will do work at least like a salt in the flour like he did in the past so if you really want change give vote to imran khan...

Paparazzi..

what you people think what does this word "paparazzi" mean..iam quite sure that maximum of you dont know..me also read it in a newspaper and found it quite intresting so i decided,lets share it by writting on it as my first ever bolg on net...

So....Paparazzi basically are those photographers in west especially who specializes in candid photography means they capture a photo or a clip without the knowledge of a person...

so all the time they are in persuit of big personalities...celebrities....politicans...royal families.....and other prominent people to get one snap...one good snap or clips....and then what they do is they sell that photo or a clip to the magzine agencies in a millions of dollors....and that is why paparazzi photographer are defined as an unacceptable annoyance especially by celebrities,they are always scared of them you can say they are afraid of them...the more photo is unique the more it worth in millions...the best example i can gave you is of lady diana that when the judicial inquiry jury investigated they found the paparazzi involvement in the deaths of Princess Diana in a high-speed car chase in Paris, France, while being pursued by paparazzi....

sooo........ i think i can write surely i can....:-)and i guess this is enough as for as my first blog is concerned..:-p

your feedback will be most wellcomed..

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