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when you don't have words to express your feelings n u know no one cares you write and delete write and delete again and again this is what i learned just now after wasting so much time ....

What is Personality.:)

In world most expensive suits making company is of brioni and it is an italic brand there range starts from 4000 euros and like wise world most expensive shoes making company is of crewcidy and there range also starts from 4000 euros and you get shoes after nine months of ordering and like wise there are companies who are making new expensive and exclusive perfumes….fortunately I met a person who was wearing a brioni’s suit and was wearing crewsidy shoes and his perfume was also very fantastic and I was very much impressed by his personality I thought that such a tasteful person first time came in my life but unfortunately whenever i take tea or coffee I start remembering that person automatically and taste of my coffee or tea get spoiled the reason for that is that we were sitting face to face and cups of coffee were in front of us and in a mean while of such a sophisticated conversation he sneezed very horribly which goes half in his cup and half in my cup…:))and after then what happened is that he start taking his coffee…:))now I was reluctant not willing to take coffee and he was saying me again and again don't you like coffee why are you not taking it…:)now atticates were saying that I should do something so I closed my eyes and ears forcefully drank my coffee…:))now what happens is whenever I see a cup of coffee or tea it uncontrollably remind me of him and when I remember him i always use to forget his expensive suit,his expensive shoes his expensive perfumes and I forget his conversation but i only remember his horrible sneezing…. this is known as personality….:)

Credit card Relations

Do we have to wait for someone's death to meet and have get together,life had gone meaning less that relations are getting weak and our own love ones are getting far....Ashfaq ahmed in his book Zavia writes that i was at funeral of my relative and i was half slept and some children were talking nearby and i was surprised by the one of child sentence he was saying that "if someone dies then we have allot of fun,we get together and all the relatives as well"....and then one of them said dont know who will die next  now, nana naseer ud din beard is white may be he will die next.then the fight began in children that no aunti zahara is too old when she will die we will go to faisalabad we will meet there and will play there whole day.....i tell you a good thing that  in that discussion my name(Ashfaq ahmed) also came my youngest nephew said nana ashfaq is also too much old,and when he will die there will be more people and fun because he is too much famous.....those children were very rude,serious and with deep thinking making planes to meet next again....

ladies and gentile men if we say our values had changed then its not true.values are still there like still there is always a difference between truth and lie,honest or dishonest weather we change home or city values are still there but the horrible thing is that our children have to wait for someone's death to meet again,this is not the problem of our children this is our fault...

when i realize why it is so then find out that small thing time to time keep held in our way like i have time to rectify my income tax bill which is wrong or i have time to renew my expired driving license,my son live in  rivand and there is no gas i have time to supply gas cylinder to him,dog bite our servant and i have to take him hospital for 14 injections...i have time to write many books...i am worried about my utility bills,worried about land line phone which is not working and go again and again for that matter in phone offices but don't have time to our dear ones.  

we need to know our carelessness,we need to knew our relations and to keep in touch we need to take time out....we have to give relations at least importance like credit card.... my wish is that we keep meeting and have get together so that our children don't have to wait for someone's death and also they don't have to wish for someone's early death to meet again....

Lesson

Just received a beautiful message with a beautiful lesson...

A king with a defect in 1 eye and 1 leg asked all the painters to draw his beautiful portrait but no 1 was ready to draw, as how to show him beautiful with defects in 1 eye and a leg...One painter however agreed and drew a classic one. It was such a fantastic picture that everyone was surprised "He painted the king aiming for a hunt, targeting with 1 eye closed and a leg bent for it" ....

i think we can get huge lesson from the above story that why can't we just paint others like this by hiding their weakness and highlighting their strengths?it can solve many problems in life from people and relationship perspective because no one is perfect and in the end affection is always greater than perfection.

may Allah teach us to hide other's weaknesses and bring their virtues to light...

Power of Sharing..

you know what..what is that thing which when you share it,it doubles..??it is known as happiness...yes  the thing which doubles by sharing is known as happiness and you know what what is that thing which decreases by sharing..??it is known as grief/sadness...yes the thing which decreases by sharing is sadness..for example if you u want to celebrate your birthday alone it will not give you happiness and on the other hand more you invite people the more it will give you happiness,so the thing which doubles by sharing is happiness...now the thing which decreases by sharing is sadness as i said above for example if someone your close die the more people come for sorrow and express the more it decreases the pain and grief  thus we say that grief and sadness decreases by sharing...so we say that the thing which when shared and it doubles is happiness and the thing which when shared and reduces is grief/sadness....so you see isn't that interesting that both happiness and grief/sadness have opposite effect by just doing the same thing "sharing"...

Money isn't Everything

You know what you cannot say that money is not important in life yes it is essential because it brings for us all the necessities and luxuries for comfortable existence, however at the same time to think that money is everything is also a big mistake because you cannot buy real happiness and satisfaction with your money...someone said..yes with money you can buy million dollar bed but cannot buy sleep...yes you can buy a clock but not time.. it can buy you a book but not knowledge.. it can buy you a position/status but not respect....yes it can buy you a medicine but not health...yes it can buy you blood but not life...yes it can buy you a pleasure but not love...it can buy you cars but not good friends...it can buy you a house but not home...it can buy you but not your soul and a quote just popped up in mind is that we lose our health to gain money and then to restore our health we lose money...in the pursuit of beautiful tomorrow by getting more and more money we lose our beautiful today and what happens is we live as we will never gonna die and we die as we had never lived...  

Some of the happiest people I have ever met they live in a small town they live in small houses, have no cars and wear the same outfit for days in a row,the reason i found for their happiness is that they are surrounded by family and friends and are almost insulated from the big, bad materialistic world,they get joy every day from simple things like going for a walk after a meal or picking cucumbers from their garden...

None of those cost a dime..

so you see money isn't everything,and it often causes pain and sufferings,i tell you because i am your friend and as a friend i want to take away your pains and sufferings...so send me all your money..:-)

Some Real Adventure

You know what today i faced some real adventure and thrill its actually second time in my life it happens to me,but this time it was more dangerous,but thanks to Allah that he saved me in all that situation...today when i step down from the bus and as i was about to cross the road without looking on either sides some thoughts popped into my mind which made me forget that i am crossing the road, and in the next moment i was on the road in shocked state. The thing which bring me back from those thoughts was the loud horn and i was on the ground. actually in mean while i was crossing the road fast speed motorcycle just before hitting me woke me up by horn just before second i looked up too close was motorcycle and then i don't really know what happened exactly i was flying in air got down on road face right up the sky and the first thought came to mind oh thanks God i am alright after three seconds i got up three four people were around asking me that are you alright son?are you fine?i wasn't nervous because all that happened so quickly and thanks to motor cycle uncle who really tolerated me because it was all my fault...,thank you dear Allah again for your huge kindness...:-)