You know what there are about 18 million people in this country and each one them have their own Islam and they think their Islam is right....Just like that one of my teacher in university whose Islam seems to start with beard and ends on Jeans..He thinks that Wearing Jeans and pants is not allowed in Islam because it is a dress of non believers and we should not wear it .... you know i can literally prove it that its not like that but leave it i am not gonna get into that....okay fine even if he is right, problem is one half year passed and no one changed accordingly and doesn't listen to the respected teacher teachings by heart at all why???
The answer is because he him self lacks some basic things of religion, humanity and character which are also very important from which other think how good human you are and consequently a good Muslim, like he is an intolerant man he often show anger on small things like once he betrayed and abused our class Cr badly....he even doesn't have tolerance to respect and listen to other point of view,he thinks what he think is right and that's hell of a bad thing its self....he is also not equal to all the students in class like once in exam i asked him about a question given in exam and he said "i dont know" and after few minutes when same question was asked by female topper of the class he guided her now what is this,...he said to me recently"don't argue with me" now what is this? this can't be one sided otherwise no one will listen to him..In Islam back biting is also strictly not allowed but we do it anyway, in Islam telling a lie is also a sin but we daily lie on small small things,in Islam smoking, drinking ,bad thinking, is also not allowed by we do it any way. In Islam snatching others Right is also not allowed and many many more.Islam is a complete way of life it is not limited to jeans and pants there are other things too.
Tell me "if one person who is having beard and wear "Islamic dressing" but he is not tolerant to other people and hurt others feelings,who doesn't respect other point of view and is also not fair and who back bit on people and lie and who doesn't care about his neighbors and do other wrong things is "Good" or the one who wears jeans and does not do anything mentioned above...
The thing i want to say is that we need to show some character first...if you analyze first 40 years before Rasalat of Prophet Muhammad(P.B.U.H) he first developed his character to people..
why our approach is so Rigid and hard and not flexible....there are many examples i can cote here about flexibility in Islam but leave........(to be continued).
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ReplyDeleteEveryone has molded the religion according to him , but im really sorry about the mentality of our people which still revolve arounds the dressing and physical appearence, but we should not "Judge a book by its cover".
ReplyDeleteyup agreed..
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